Best of : Negativity

Recently I have kick started my diet and this has made me moodier than usual. When looking at my net worth and my budget I was real depressed at my current financial situation.  Between school and credit card debt it seems that I will never have a positive net financial worth. READ MORE >>

I could spend all day focusing on the negative aspects of myself, but I fear that I would bore you. I focus way too much on the negative side of myself. This can cause ugly side effects, like focusing on what other people think about you, or focusing on the negative qualities of others so that you can drag them down to your level.  READ MORE >>   

One issue that is often overlooked is that we can be our own worse enemy.  Perhaps, like many adults with ADD you are so use to failing that you do not actually believe you can straighten out your financial issues.  Or maybe the reason you spend money that you don't have, is to block out the feeling that almost everyone else is better than you, if you can show people that you are just like everyone else you can feel better about yourself.

There are three steps you can take to help you to minimize the damage that self inflicted sabotage can do to your financial and emotional well being: READ MORE >>   

Comments

[Jerry]

Negativity is everywhere, and it's a challenge for so many people to try to overcome it. I applaud your courage to admit it! The problem, of course, is that the negativity rarely has complete root in reality, AND it leads to a self-perpetuating cycle of failure and loathing. The best insurance against this can sometimes be getting the input of a trusted and reliable third party who sees both sides of you. It helps me, anyway.
Jerry
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